Why Can't You Read My Mind? : Overcoming the 9 Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship

Most people think that poor communication is the reason why so many relationships end, but it's actually the way we learn to think about our partners and our problems that undermines trust, erodes intimacy, and cripples communication. In Why Can't You Read My Mind?, psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein reveals—for the first time—the 9 toxic thought patterns at work in virtually every relationship, and shows couples how these distorted, negative, exaggerated thoughts can destroy the love between couples. Based on years of successful counseling, Bernstein has developed a simple yet powerful approach for breaking the toxic thinking cycle and helps couples establish new and more positive thinking habits for solving problems and dealing with the stresses of everyday life. Filled with practical advice on topics like fighting fairly and purging emotional ghosts, as well as fun, easy-to-follow exercises that will keep romance alive for years to come, Why Can't You Read My Mind? is an invaluable tool for those seeking to restore-or create-a happy, loving and fulfilling relationship.Bernstein, Jeffrey is the author of 'Why Can't You Read My Mind? : Overcoming the 9 Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship', published 2006 under ISBN 9781569243183 and ISBN 1569243182.