60,001+ Best Baby Names

Excerpt from Chapter 1: Tips for Naming Your Baby Ten Great Tips for Successful Baby-Naming A "set of rules" can ratchet up your confidence. If you don't really need a framework, just read the following tips as a fun diversion. Here are ten steps for naming your baby: 1. Consider the sound-does it work with your last name? When the full name is said aloud, you want something that has a nice ring, not a tongue-twister or a rhyme. You may find that a long last name jibes best with a short first name; by the same token, put a long first name with a short last name, and you may have a winner. The union of a first name ending in a vowel paired with a last name that starts with a vowel is not the greatest choice. For example: Ava Amazon. It's just hard to say. Puns aren't good omens for a happy life, either. Look at the infamous Ima Hogg name of a Houston philanthropist. If the poor woman wasn't burdened enough, she also had to deal with lifelong rumors of a sister named Ura. 2. Know exactly what happens when you give your baby a crowd-pleaser name. Give your kid a common name, and she'll probably end up Sarah B. in a classroom with six Sarahs. She may be comfortable with the anonymity that a plain-Jane name lends her-considering it far better than being the class Brunhilda, who gets ridiculed daily. Or she may ask you every other day of her childhood why you weren't more original in naming her: "Why did you give me the same name fifty million other kids have? Why couldn't you have come up with something better? Why didn't you take more time?" 3. Think seriously about the repercussions of choosing a name that's over-the-top in uniqueness. You are definitely sticking your neck out by giving your child the name Rusty if your last name is Nail. Sure, he may muster up enough swagger to pull it off, but what if he doesn't? Lots of people with unusual or hard-to-spell last names will purposely opt for a simple first name for their child just to ease the load of having two names to spell over and over. Some research suggests that kids with odd names get more taunting from peers and are less well socialized. You can be sure that junior-high kids will make fun of a boy named Stone, but later, as an adult, he may enjoy having an unusual name. Just make sure you don't choose a "fun" name simply because you like the idea of having people praise your creativity-instead, ask yourself how your child will feel about being a Bark or a Lake. 4. Ponder the wisdom of carrying on that family name. Aunt Priscilla did fine with her name, but how will your tiny tot feel in a classroom full of Ambers and Britneys? Extremely old-fashioned names sometimes make their way back into circulation and do just fine, but sometimes they don't. (Will we really ever see the name Durwood soar again?) 5. Consider the confusion that is spawned by a namesake. A kid named after a parent won't like being "Junior" or "Little Al." Ask anyone who has been in that position about the amount of confusion it generates about credit cards and other personal I.D. information. You'll spend half your life unraveling the mix-ups. Psychiatrists (many of them juniors themselves) will tell you that giving a child his very own name is a much better jump-start than making him a spin-off or a mini-me. At the same time, we have all run across someone who absolutely loves being Trey or a III because the name represents tradition and history. 6. Make your family/background name an understudy (the middle name). Let's say you want your baby's name to reflect family heritage or religion, but you strongly prefer more mainstream names. You can fill both bills by using the ancestral name as a middle name. 7. Ponder whether the name's meaning matters to you. For some people, knowing a name's meaning is extremely important-often much more so than its origin. Your child could turn out to be the type who loves investigatingStafford, Diane is the author of '60,001+ Best Baby Names', published 2008 under ISBN 9781402213410 and ISBN 1402213417.